24 yrs of life experience, the most critical aspect that i view about marriage, is responsibility. The care for each other. The mix of religion and culture disciplines, where we must satisfy both families. And the anticipation of the next generation. Where more responsibilities lies ahead.
I've read a webpage that says:
"The fact is that all marriages have problems that cause conflict and strain the relationship. Among the most common problems:
- Money. There never seems to be enough, or if there is, one person is upset about how the other spends it.
- Sex. It's the reason 45 percent of couples seek marriage counseling. Usually, one partner desires sex more often and on different terms than the other.
- Work. Partners have different role expectations about who does what within and outside of the home.
- Children. Couples may disagree over how to raise and discipline children."
There's nothing that i can disagree with all of these points. Every marriage, youth or old, would face all those problems and deal with it varily.
For me, i really don't even know yet if i'll pass all of these circumstances blissfully, or wacky, or none at all. Hoped not the least.
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